Rules of Engagement - #9 & #10
Living in Truth & Freedom from Coveting
Icebreaker
Share a time when someone's honesty (even if it was hard to hear) actually helped you or strengthened your relationship with them.
Discussion
1: The Reality of Lies in Our Lives
Scripture: Genesis 3:1-13, John 8:44, Acts 5:1-11
The sermon reminded us that Satan is the "father of lies" and that when we lie—even in small ways—we participate in his kingdom rather than God's. Adam and Eve's first response after sinning was to hide and give half-truths. Ananias and Sapphira's lie to the Holy Spirit shows how seriously God takes dishonesty in the church.
Discussion starter: Where do you find yourself most tempted to bend the truth—at work, on social media, in family conversations, or maybe with yourself?
Let people share openly without judgment. This builds trust and helps everyone realize we all struggle with honesty in different areas.
2: God Seeks Worshipers in Spirit & Truth
Scripture: John 4:23-24, John 14:15-17, 1 John 1:8-9
God desires authentic relationship with us, not religious performance. The Holy Spirit—the Spirit of Truth—uses God's Word to speak truth to our hearts and guide us daily. When we're not walking in truth, sometimes God becomes quiet, waiting for us to come back to honest conversation with Him.
Discussion starter: Have you ever experienced a season where God felt distant, and later realized you were hiding something from Him or deceiving yourself?
Encourage vulnerability here. Remind the group that confession brings us back into fellowship with God and with each other (1 John 1:9).
3: What Are We Really Living For?
Scripture: Exodus 20:17, Philippians 1:21, Hebrews 13:5-6
The final commandment against coveting reveals what's really in our hearts—our true priorities. Paul could say, "For me to live is Christ, and to die is gain." The sermon challenged us: What would you write in your box? What are you actually living for day to day?
Discussion starter: If you're honest, what would you write in your "For me to live is __________" box right now—and what do you want it to be?
This can be a reflective moment. Encourage people to name both where they are and where they want to grow, without shame.
Prayer Prompts
What are you celebrating this week?
What are you praying about this week?
Pray for transformation: Ask God to help each person in the group walk in truth this week, to reveal any areas of self-deception or coveting, and to give courage to live authentically for Jesus. Pray for unity in your group as you encourage each other toward honesty and freedom. Pray for specific people outside the group who need to experience God's truth and love.
Closing Reflection
We carry the name of Jesus wherever we go. Let's be known as people who walk in truth and love well—not perfectly, but honestly. Remember: the truth sets us free, and walking in it brings us closer to the One we love.
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