Oikos - Part 1 - Discussion Guide

Icebreaker

What's something you love doing so much that you'd do it for free? (Bonus: How could that thing be used to serve someone?)

Discussion

1. The Power of Faithful Prayer

Scripture: Luke 18:1-8; John 16:23-24

Jesus told us to "always pray and not give up." When we pray for the people in our Oikos, we're partnering with God in His mission to seek and save the lost. It might take weeks, months, or even years—but our faithful prayers matter more than we know.

Discussion starter: Who on your Oikos list has been the hardest to keep praying for, and what keeps you going?

2. Becoming a Servant Like Jesus

Scripture: Mark 10:42-45; Ephesians 2:8-10

Jesus didn't come to be served but to serve. We're called to be funnels of God's grace, not buckets that just collect it. Everyone has a need, and God has given each of us unique gifts and passions to serve the people He's placed in our lives.

Discussion starter: What's one way you've served someone on your list recently, or what's one way you could serve them this week?

3. Preparing to Invite Without Rushing

Scripture: Luke 5:27-32; Luke 19:1-10

Jesus met people where they were—at tables, in homes, in everyday life. Inviting people into our lives and into community with Jesus is important, but we can't rush the harvest. We pray, we serve, and then the Holy Spirit guides us when to invite.

Discussion starter: What makes inviting people feel scary or uncomfortable, and how can we support each other in taking that step?

Prayer Time

• What are you celebrating this week?

• What are you praying about this week?

• Focused Prayer: Let's pray for ourselves—that we'd have servant hearts and patience. Let's pray for unity in our group—that we'd encourage each other in this mission. And let's pray by name for the people on our Oikos lists—that God would move in their lives and draw them to Himself.

Closing Reflection

Oikos isn't a program—it's a way of life. The people on your list are there by divine appointment, and God is already at work in their lives. Keep praying, keep serving, keep inviting, and watch what Jesus does!